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Why Moms Are Talking About Us
Maryland is full of hardworking, multitasking moms who deserve more than just a rushed hour of self-care squeezed into their schedule. That’s why Mom Mode Deactivated is becoming a go-to haven. We’re not just another “mom group.” We’re a movement reminding women everywhere that rest is revolutionary.
So, mom this is your permission slip. Step away, recharge, and return stronger than ever.
Meet the MOMMY Behind the Movement
Chidiebere
a.k.a
naijababeallday
I’m a wife and a proud mom of three beautiful kids. When people ask what I do, my favorite answer is: everything. I’m truly a maker of all trades, but what I love most is helping people.
Even though I deeply love my family, motherhood hasn’t always been easy. After my first daughter, I struggled not just with raising a child, but with holding on to myself. By the time I had my second, I had gained weight, lost confidence, and just didn’t feel like me anymore.
What I truly needed back then was a strong mom tribe a space to connect with women who could uplift each other, even while juggling diaper duty and sleep schedules.
But by the time I had my third baby, everything started to click. I got my sexy back, my joy, my confidence. I found balance between motherhood and womanhood. I was going out, having fun, taking care of myself and still making sure my family was thriving.
That’s why I created Mom Mode Deactivated: a space for moms to feel seen, supported, and absolutely unstoppable. A sisterhood where we remind each other that we can slay, stay sexy, and be present for our families.
Because here, you’re never alone we’re just a call (or a cocktail) away.
Take a day off. Breathe. Recharge. Connect.
Mom Mode Deactivated
Because Moms Deserve
a Break Too
Being a mom is the most rewarding job in the world but it’s also one of the hardest. Between school runs, work, cooking, laundry, endless “Mom, can you…?” requests, and zero time for yourself, it’s no wonder so many moms feel burnt out.
At Mom Mode Deactivated, we believe you shouldn’t have to choose between being a great mom and taking care of you. That’s why we created a space right here in Maryland where moms can unwind, relax, and reconnect with themselves—and each other.
Here’s Why You Need This More Than You Think
Did you know:
🧠62% of moms report feeling overwhelmed and under-supported daily.
💔1 in 5 moms say they’ve forgotten what brings them joy.
🔥 But 100% of women deserve a safe space to recharge.
This isn’t just self-care. It’s a declaration of worth.
Because burnout isn’t a badge of honor and you don’t have to earn rest.
This is your invitation to reset. To remember. To rise.
The Hidden Cost of Never Taking a Break
Most moms wear busyness like a badge of honor but the truth is, exhaustion doesn’t make you a better mom. It makes you an overworked one. Studies from the American Psychological Association show that chronic stress can actually reduce your ability to focus, nurture, and enjoy family time. That’s why hitting pause isn’t selfish it’s essential.
At Mom Mode Deactivated, we’re redefining what self-care means for moms. It’s not about bubble baths squeezed in at midnight or quick Target runs passed off as “me-time.” It’s about intentional rest. A full stop. A day crafted entirely for you.
Our EVENT PARTNERS
At Mom Mode Deactivated, we’re proud to partner with amazing moms, local businesses, and community organizations who share our mission of helping mothers rest, recharge, and reconnect. Our commitment to creating uplifting experiences, reliable support, and innovative self-care solutions has earned the trust of moms across Maryland. Together, we’re building a community where women can prioritize their well-being without guilt—because when moms thrive, families and communities thrive too.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What’s Mom Mode Deactivated?
Mom Mode Deactivated is more than an event it’s a movement. It’s a space for moms to hit pause on their daily responsibilities and reconnect with the woman behind the title. Expect vibes, empowerment, and real connection in a judgment-free zone.
Do I have to be a mom to join?
Our community is designed for moms in all stages of motherhood new moms, seasoned moms, working moms, stay-at-home moms, single moms, and everything in between. If you identify with motherhood and need a break, you belong here.
What kinds of events and activities do you offer?
We host a variety of curated experiences designed to help you relax, laugh, and connect, such as:
Pampering & wellness days
Brunches and social gatherings
Creative workshops (vision boards, journaling, painting, etc.)
Empowerment circles & group discussions
Seasonal themed events
Each event is designed to help you recharge and remind you that you’re more than just “Mom.”
Is childcare provided during events?
We want you to enjoy your time without any distractions. While most of our events are designed as “mom-only escapes,” some gatherings may offer childcare partnerships. Be sure to check the details for each event to see if childcare is included or recommended.
Do I need to book in advance?
Yes! To keep each experience intimate and stress-free, spaces are limited. Booking in advance guarantees your spot and allows us to create a personalized experience for you.
I feel guilty about taking time away from my family. Is this normal?
Absolutely. Almost every mom feels this way at first but here’s the truth: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking a break isn’t selfish—it’s essential. When you recharge, your family benefits too because you return refreshed, energized, and present.
How often should I come to Mom Mode Deactivated?
That depends on you! Some moms join us once a month as a reset, while others make it a regular part of their self-care routine. Think of it as your wellness prescription except a lot more fun.
Where are you located?
We are based in Maryland. Event details, including specific venues and times, are shared after booking. Follow us on Instagram @naijababeallday for updates on upcoming events and locations.
Can I come with a friend or family member?
Yes! Many moms love bringing along a friend, sister, or fellow mom. Just be sure to reserve spots for everyone since our events often sell out quickly.
How do I sign up or get involved?
It’s simple! Visit www.mommodedeactivated.com or any of our social, check out our upcoming events, and book your spot. You can also join our community on Instagram to stay connected and hear about new events first.
Contact us if you have more questions in mind
We’ve designed every detail with one goal in mind: making you feel like you again.
Serene spaces filled with calming aesthetics and cozy corners
Elegant setups for intimate brunches, or chats
Instagram-worthy décor (because let’s be honest you’ll want to snap a few pics!)
Seasonal themes and curated events that keep things fresh and exciting
A space built for moms to connect, laugh, and remember what it feels like to just be
