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The Journey to Becoming mom mode deactivated
Mom Mode Deactivated was created by Chidiebere who knew motherhood was not just the smiles in family photos, but the sleepless nights, the silent sacrifices, and the unspoken exhaustion. As a mom herself, she recognized that while motherhood is deeply rewarding, it can also leave women feeling invisible, burnt out, and disconnected from who they used to be.
She asked herself a simple but powerful question: “Where do moms go when they just need to breathe?” When they couldn’t find an answer, they built one. Mom Mode Deactivated is the result a safe, uplifting space designed by moms who truly understand the journey, for moms who deserve more than just survival mode.
Our story
The story of Mom Mode Deactivated began in Maryland, over conversations that every mother has had at some point: “I just need a break.” What was once a passing thought grew into a mission a movement to create intentional moments where moms could step away from their endless to-do lists and reconnect with themselves.
From intimate brunches and wellness experiences to workshops filled with laughter and learning, our gatherings quickly proved one thing: moms are craving community, rest, and joy. Today, what began as a small idea among friends has grown into a vibrant community where mothers come together not just to relax, but to remember that before they were “Mom,” they were—and still are—HER.
Our Mission
At Mom Mode Deactivated, our mission is to give mothers permission to pause. We exist to create spaces where women can step away from responsibility, silence the never-ending “mom guilt,” and focus fully on themselves.
Through carefully curated events and supportive community experiences, we help moms embrace rest, rediscover joy, and build connections that remind them they’re not alone. By encouraging mothers to prioritize self-care without shame, we’re not just helping women recharge—we’re changing the way motherhood is experienced. Because when moms thrive, families and communities thrive too.
Our Vision
We envision a world where self-care for mothers is no longer considered a luxury, but a vital part of everyday life. A world where moms don’t have to choose between being incredible caretakers and taking care of themselves.
A world where every mother feels seen, supported, and celebrated not just for her role in the family, but for her identity as a whole woman. Our vision is to expand Mom Mode Deactivated into a movement that empowers mothers across the globe, proving that rest is revolutionary, and connection is transformative.
Our Purpose
Our purpose is rooted in love and driven by the belief that moms deserve to thrive, not just survive. We created Mom Mode Deactivated to give women a place where they can drop the title of “Mom” for a while and simply exist as themselves without pressure, without guilt, and without judgment.
We believe in building a community where rest is honored, laughter is shared, and support flows freely. At our core, our purpose is simple: to remind every mom that she is worthy of care, joy, and celebration and that even in motherhood, she is still HER.
Frequently Asked Questions
What’s Mom Mode Deactivated?
Mom Mode Deactivated is more than an event it’s a movement. It’s a space for moms to hit pause on their daily responsibilities and reconnect with the woman behind the title. Expect vibes, empowerment, and real connection in a judgment-free zone.
Do I have to be a mom to join?
Our community is designed for moms in all stages of motherhood new moms, seasoned moms, working moms, stay-at-home moms, single moms, and everything in between. If you identify with motherhood and need a break, you belong here.
What kinds of events and activities do you offer?
We host a variety of curated experiences designed to help you relax, laugh, and connect, such as:
Pampering & wellness days
Brunches and social gatherings
Creative workshops (vision boards, journaling, painting, etc.)
Empowerment circles & group discussions
Seasonal themed events
Each event is designed to help you recharge and remind you that you’re more than just “Mom.”
Is childcare provided during events?
We want you to enjoy your time without any distractions. While most of our events are designed as “mom-only escapes,” some gatherings may offer childcare partnerships. Be sure to check the details for each event to see if childcare is included or recommended.
Do I need to book in advance?
Yes! To keep each experience intimate and stress-free, spaces are limited. Booking in advance guarantees your spot and allows us to create a personalized experience for you.
I feel guilty about taking time away from my family. Is this normal?
Absolutely. Almost every mom feels this way at first but here’s the truth: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking a break isn’t selfish—it’s essential. When you recharge, your family benefits too because you return refreshed, energized, and present.
How often should I come to Mom Mode Deactivated?
That depends on you! Some moms join us once a month as a reset, while others make it a regular part of their self-care routine. Think of it as your wellness prescription except a lot more fun.
Where are you located?
We are based in Maryland. Event details, including specific venues and times, are shared after booking. Follow us on Instagram @naijababeallday for updates on upcoming events and locations.
Can I come with a friend or family member?
Yes! Many moms love bringing along a friend, sister, or fellow mom. Just be sure to reserve spots for everyone since our events often sell out quickly.
How do I sign up or get involved?
It’s simple! Visit www.mommodedeactivated.com or any of our social, check out our upcoming events, and book your spot. You can also join our community on Instagram to stay connected and hear about new events first.
